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I am in the US with both Dinbit and Buchela.

Making the journey, almost two days, alone with the two kids was brutal even if they both behaved generously.

Buchela had his own bag and he carried it around dutifully even if it was, I felt, too heavy.

He refused to let me help and in the end, he tried to help me with mine.

Dinbit is teething already so she chewed on my nipples for the majority of the time!

Going to the bathroom was a challenge since either I had to take both kids into the little plane bathroom or leave them (which left me with dread the whole time I was away!)

We spent a day in Korea.

Incheon airport must be the nicest airport I have ever been in. It had a tech station where I could use the internet while Buchela sat in a cool chair and listened to music. It had a nice playground.

We arrived on September 11, on the first day of 2001 in Ethiopia. As I left the plane, busily fussing over Buchela's bag I heard someone say "Happy new year!" I looked up to find a nice older Ethiopian man smiling at us. He had heard me speak in Amharic.

Now we are trying to survive the jetlag. First night, all of us were up at 2 am.

Yesterday, I was up at 3 am but Buchela slept until 5 am.

Dinbit regularly woke up every hour or so.

I am exhausted.

My friends have been wonderful. One came over and outfitted my car with car seats for me. Another took me to Babies R Us to buy a stroller I badly needed.

I am learning to drive again. I am a nervous wreck. I have not driven in any serious way for over five years. I am terrified that I will accidentally find myself on the highway.

Everything seems so big and intimidating.

Buchela was so tired he attempted to lay down go to sleep every where we went.









We stayed at a relatively nice hotel in South Korea.



When I had to go to the bathroom, I had to take Dinbit with me since I didn't think it was a good idea to leave her alone, on the bed, with Buchela.

I had no where to put her.

So, I put some towels in the sink and laid her down there to give myself a minute.



Playground at the Korean airport.



I had no idea Caribou Coffee had arrived in Korea! I knew Starbucks is all over the place but didn't expect to see Caribou.



On the plane, Buchela folded himself in half and slept on his chair.

Dinbit slept in her bassinet.

I never slept.







We are now unpacking, trying to get organized and make some sort of routine.







Sorry to have worried some of you guys. I was absolutely in a survival mode. There was just no time to update the blog.

I have so much to put in over the next few days!

Comments
JourneytoFamily's Gravatar WOW... I can't believe you made the trip alone with the two kids. You are a super woman! Hope you all recover from the jet lag soon!!!
# Posted By JourneytoFamily | 9/13/08 9:49 PM
Addis's Gravatar Welcome back to the US Yemi, Buchie, and Dinbiteena...glad to hear your are all doing good and arrived safe...you are one brave woman to take this journey with two
little once by yourself...take a good long rest...
# Posted By Addis | 9/13/08 9:51 PM
oh's Gravatar Good Luck. I don't know how you do it. Girl You have all the power. May My God be with you. How long are you gone be in usa?

P.s. that looks very dangers. ( dinbit in the sink ) the floor is always safe.
# Posted By oh | 9/13/08 9:54 PM
jwg's Gravatar Try and get some rest. We'll all be here waiting when you are ready, prepared to listen and offer any support you need. And I'd rather the sink than the floor. Shoes are filthy!
# Posted By jwg | 9/14/08 6:13 AM
Nancy's Gravatar I wondered what happened and thought maybe you were busy with your little ones. Apparently you were VERY busy traveling across the world. Welcome back to the USA! Happy New Year!
# Posted By Nancy | 9/14/08 6:25 AM
Rahel's Gravatar During my childhood here in the States, my imaye and I were in "survival mode" for a while... I hope all is well. You and the kids are in our thoughts.
# Posted By Rahel | 9/14/08 8:41 AM
Dalong's Gravatar Hey from D&A&C&N in Kai Fa Qu (try to figure this one out with jet lag). Glad you made it safely. Mothers are the toughest people in the world. Get some sleep eh?
# Posted By Dalong | 9/14/08 10:15 AM
lula's Gravatar Yemi,

I hope you and the kids are settleing well.

I offer my babysitting services anytime and day if you are in my town:) Where in the US are you? My prayers are with you.
# Posted By lula | 9/14/08 2:40 PM
Mimi's Gravatar Yemi - Welcome ! It is good to hear from you . So you are moving back to the States again or you're here for a visit? either way, I hope you and Buchiye and Dinbit
have a great ole' time . :) can't wait to see the update. Cheers!
# Posted By Mimi | 9/14/08 7:41 PM
Brandy's Gravatar Oh my...I can't believe you made that trip!! It is long and hard just with me and my husband!! We will be making that trip again some time before May and moving out there in most likely in June. Have a great time in the states!! Good idea on the sink thing..I would have done the same thing!! ;)
# Posted By Brandy | 9/14/08 10:27 PM
oromay's Gravatar DON'T EAT MY BUCHELA....coming to you from xxx, US of A
yemi is this the way it goes now or what?...me just being curious!
i loooooooove dinbit's pics on the sink....it seems that it is made for her....you are amazingly brave!!!!
# Posted By oromay | 9/15/08 1:07 AM
Selam's Gravatar Wellcome my sister and happy new year.
I do not know the reason but I feel
good for you coming to USA.
You are in my prayer.
# Posted By Selam | 9/15/08 5:00 AM
munit's Gravatar Welcom Yemi, Buchi and Dinbit. Nice picutres, like always.
# Posted By munit | 9/15/08 8:27 AM
Addis's Gravatar Welocme home, and good to hear from you. Every morning before i start my work the first thing I do is chek your web since you didn't post anything for the last couple of days you make me a little bit worry. Good to hear from you and the kids we are always be there for you (your siber friends :)
# Posted By Addis | 9/15/08 8:49 AM
Diana's Gravatar Yemi - Enkuan aderesesh. Wow a trip halfway around the world with 2 little ones!! My hat's off. Going to the US with just 1 baby almost kills me. Seeing pics of Dinbit in the sink reminded me of trips back and forth from the US with my son... (I did that too)
Hope all's well - you're in my thoughts.
# Posted By Diana | 9/15/08 9:02 AM
Mariye's Gravatar Yemi, I really admire you! May God be with you.
# Posted By Mariye | 9/15/08 7:20 PM
midlife mommy's Gravatar I just love that picture, lovingly keeping those nuts warm.

Welcome to the U.S. Sorry that you are here on what appears to be sad circumstances. I hope that all works out.
# Posted By midlife mommy | 9/16/08 8:32 PM
midlife mommy's Gravatar Whoops, that's what I get for having too many windows open. My nuts comment related to the nuts post.

I just love the sink idea!
# Posted By midlife mommy | 9/16/08 8:33 PM
metsihet's Gravatar Welcome home, you are a strong woman!!!
I love reading your blog, thank you yemi for your information on feeding you babies atimit
# Posted By metsihet | 9/19/08 7:41 AM
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