School Days II
Schools in China are very structured even at the tender age of two.
Buchela is having to learn and he doesn't like it. More times than not, he cries when he arrives at his class room or refuses to enter.
Someone has been going with him to school every single day. Sometimes I went, other days his aunt or my cousin went with him. Either way, I was always there to drop him off and pick him up.
Soon, he would have to go on his own.
I told the teachers not to be bothered if he is not paying attention to somethings because I don't feel like he is ready to undertake academic work by Chinese standards.
I don't want him to.
I just need for him to have a place where he can play and socialize while I work. Since his playgroup is fast shrinking, school is the only option.
Over the past few weeks, he has learned a lot about the institution of school. He is still not very fond of it.
But he has made friends and he participates in activities.
Schools in China serve food and drinks. Here the teacher is giving the kids Mung Bean water... apparently good for the health during hot weather (so I have been told).
It is served warm so Buchela thinks he is drinking tea like his Mama.
Here they are lining up to go to the big play room.
For snacks they serve a cookie and a piece of fruit.
There goes my sugar free child:)
Lunches consist of three different components. Rice, meat (some sort of protein), and vegetables.
Balanced.
So far, the only things Buchela loves about school are the food and the big play room.
His participation in class activities is low.
As you can see, his little report pouch is empty while everyone else's has stuff in it.
And I don't care.
I don't want anyone pressuring my kid to perform at this age.


















being like the other kids.
I don't have kids so i don't know what i'm taking about but isn't there a line b/n motivating and pressuring?
Chuni, yeah, there is a thin line between motivating and pressuring... The red stuff on his leg is left over from the red pen I used to draw a lady bug and a butterfly for him. He like to have me draw things on his body. So, no worries:)
Tami, lol
OH, yeah, he is unhappy but I think this is true for every kid. Slowly but surely he will start to adjust... already, he has made progress. This is his practice school. It would be interesting to see how he does in his actual school.
BTW why don't you use his Chinese name Li-Son
I totally agree. I think you shouldn't let him fall behind the other children that will make him feel like he's not good enough. I think I understand now why he's not crazy about school from your posting "Huston, We Have Communication!" It may be because you're in the room with him he can't just do what the teachers tell him instead he wants to make sure you approve.
On the other hand if you're not in the room we don't get the pictures so maybe you should be there once per week :)